He wasted my time by being nice to me when he does not respect me or my wishes and he never bothered to read what i said. He never read my profile, hes dumb and lazy like many several men on POF. I said on my profile that i wanted babies in my future and he said on his that he's undecided, which a big lie to try to get some ass from women who want to breed and yet will never marry him, because he's an immature greedy child-hating little prick.
If any woman reads this, stay away from the man or he will use you and then make you have an abortion if you somehow get pregnant despite his ocd with condoms and greed!
I was close to dating the man and i knew that if hes obsessed with condoms then it would not last, because i prefer natural lovemaking and trying to start a family. I want a real relationship and real lovemaking, not just a lifetime sex partner using uncomfy unfeeling condoms. Without respect, there can be no relationship and if a man forces a woman to not breed against her will, then that goes against women's' rights. And if he had used me, then i'd accuse him of rape (if its rape) or just tell people how he lied to get me into bed with him. I refuse to have bad sex with an asshole.
Gilcher is not a family man like i thought he was, but i saw right through him. Another man pulled the same stunt on me and winded up raping me when i was drunk, because i said no when i saw him get out a condom. Gilcher lied to me to try to get me to date him when i sensed that he was after sex and no real relationship, no adult responsibility (parenthood), just boring condom sex with no feeling nothing natural or good about that. A real relationship is when a couple date, fall in love, marry, and make babies (or adopt/surrogate if gay). A real relationship is about sexual or reproductive respect, not just sex and money.
I am afraid that he may knock a girl up and then force her to abort against her will just so he does not have to pay for the kid, hes a greedy little slut and dork, because i know what kind of asshole he is.
The arse waited until i was pressing him about condoms and babies subtlety and then he suddenly admitted that he just wants a sex partner and no babies, because he wants the money all to himself and his sexlsave and not give a dime to a child for their education. He hates and doesn't want children and kept obsessing over condoms. I knew he was gonna make me wait 'til menopause to have a baby. I tried to report him on POF, because hes an asshole who lied on his profile and is just looking for a sex slave to spend the rest of his life with. From what i gather, he may be the type of man who'd force a woman to abort a baby just because he refuses to be a man enough to pay for a child's education.
I understand that men have choice, but if they disrespect me and my choice to breed, then such men have no business talking to me unless they want what i want in life. Those who pull a stunt and lie to get into my panties deserve to be exposed for being a dishonest douche bag. I don't respect males who disrespect me, because i know that i have a right to doing what i want to do if its legal. I legally have a right to choose to get pregnant and birth and anyone who denies me that right just because they are immature and greedy, then f them! I refuse to marry a man who does not want me to breed with him. Why doesn't Gilcher be honest and maybe tie his effing tubes if he is unwilling to pay for what normal men pay? I don't date men with tied tubes, so either way, i will never date or have sex with Gilcher unless he drugged me and raped me!
Avoid any man with this username or email
. He is a dork and a psycho.