I'm pregnant, sick with the flu and have a double eye infection.


I'm pregnant, sick with the flu and have a double eye infection. Our son is also sick with the flu and I haven't left the house in the last few weeks for anything except grocery shopping and to go to DR's appts. My husband has volunteered three times this week to take extra shifts for a guy at work to give him a break and has hardly been home all week. To make matters worse our son has been really acting out and driving me crazy so I was looking forward to him being home tonight. This morning he announced that he's going out after work tonight to unwind and I'm a wee bit cranky about it, although I've said nothing. I honestly don't have the energy to argue with him right now. I might be being selfish but I resent the idea that he's going out instead of coming home and giving me some relief so I can rest, especially since he saw fit to take extra shifts to help someone else. I get that he needs time for himself, but so do I and this couldn't have came at a worse time. I have a Dr's appt. tomorrow morning, I know he's going to be hung over and cranky because he has to watch our son for me to go and I'm going to have to kick his ass to get him to act right. LOL

So, am I being the insensitive asshole or is he?

For the record, I should have mentioned that I've let him know that I needed a break. I even told him I was actually looking forward to going to the doctor (isn't that sick? lol) because I needed the hour or so worth of peace and quiet.